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Weekly Newsletter - May 28, 2008
Hope your day is going well. Mine is fine. We are anticipating the end of the school year and the short summer to follow. We start back in mid-August; only about a two-month break. When I was in school it was a true three-months. We never went back until the Tuesday after Labor Day. My guess is the "system" is pushing for year-round school…not sure how I feel about that. Feature On www.PlainFaith.com Public Access VIDEO: Q & A -- Body & Soul, Cremation Audio Tract: God's Authority & Immodest Dress Members Only Audio Tract: Does God Approve All Religions? DOWNLOAD: June/July Issue of Truth Magazine - (back issues available in the Download Library) Five Things A Pastor Won't Tell You: Part 4 ***** The Weaker Vessel Husbands have a God-given duty to care for their wives. They are to nourish and cherish them (Eph. 5:25-29). This is as much a command as worshiping God or helping a neighbor. If we neglect it, we put our souls in jeopardy. In addressing this subject, Peter said, "Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered" (1 Pet. 3:7). To dwell with a woman with understanding is no small feat, seriously. Though man and woman are both made in the image of God, they are quite different creatures. (For the record, I have no doubt women find it difficult to figure out men). Anyway, it is the obligation of the husband to dwell with understanding. A man must understand his wife, not all other women. She is a unique being with her own hopes and fears. He must be attentive to her personality, as well as her likes and dislikes. We also learn from Peter that a man must give honor to his wife. He said "as to the weaker vessel." Some have taken this passage to mean a woman is physically weaker than a man. That is generally true, but that is not really Peter's point. Rather, Peter is making a comparison. He said "as to" or like a weaker vessel. Think of it this way men; treat your wife like a fine piece of china. She is delicate and valuable. Handle her with kid-gloves. Many men, including this one, fail on this point much more often than we should. We are generally rough by nature. Sometimes we add to this by being proud or macho. Men may want to let their wife know who's boss. However, if we respect God and our wives, we will correct this and give her the honor she deserves. Remember, you promised God in your vows to take care of your wife. She is delicate and precious; treat her that way. ***** Don't Forget DOWNLOAD: Sample Commentary Chapter Of Acts Family Fun Night Contest Email me with ideas for a fun night with the family. Something you have done or would like to do will be fine. All the best, Steven |