The election was tough, but I won!

Last Sunday evening my wife told me about an election going on at

my daughter's school. There is a Site-Based Decision Making Council

that consists of the principal, three teachers, and two parents. It

influences curriculum, dress code, extracurricular activities,

staffing, etc. The election was held last Tuesday. So, my wife

mounted a telephone campaign. Amazingly, it worked.

Why would I want to do this on top of everything else? The reason

is to help ensure that my children and other children have a

quality education in a healthy environment. Some issues that we and

other parents want addressed include inappropriate books in the

library, evolution in the class room, school dances, and teachers

keeping their liberal comments to themselves.

Anyway, I hope to make a difference.

Are you taking action to change things you do not like, or just

hoping they change on their own? If you cannot be directly

involved, maybe you can support another who can. Those pushing

immoral and godless agendas work tirelessly. Those of us who have

respect for God and the morals revealed in His Word should too.

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Five Things A Pastor Won't Tell You: Part 1

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Spouse Hunting

Part 3

If you, your children or grandchildren, or a friend are looking to

get married, whether soon or years from now, you need to prepare.

These articles are designed to give you biblical and practical

advice to increase the odds of having a happy, successful marriage.

One thing that must be considered is why you want to marry.

What is the motivation behind choosing one person over another?

What characteristics or traits are you looking for? The answer to

these questions will greatly influence your life for many years to

come.

Some people choose a marriage partner for material or carnal

reasons. They put a heavy emphasis on good looks. It is true that

often the first thing that catches our attention about another is

the way they look. However, as they say, beauty is only skin deep.

Something that is rarely addressed in our society, though, is that

good looks will fade--with some disappearing altogether! Others look

have money as the motivating reason to marry one person over

another. Money comes and goes (Prov. 23:5). Too, it can cause a

heap of problems in a marriage as one or both spouses have issues

with it (spending too much or not enough). There is nothing wrong

with marrying a good-looking, wealthy man or woman, but looks and

wealth should not be the chief reasons.

Many men and women get married for emotional reasons. Emotions will

play a part, but they should not be the guiding force in forming a

life-long relationship. Before you get upset about this, let me

list the emotional reasons I have in mind.

• Friends are doing it.
  

• Avoid loneliness.
  

• Get away from parents.
  

• Spite parents.
  

• It is what is expected.
  

• To give you self-worth.
  

• To change the other.
  

• On the rebound.
  

• Attempt to cover or correct the sin of fornication.
  

• Pity.

All of the above emotional factors start a marriage from the wrong

place. They will often lead to disappointment if not complete shock

when something goes wrong. Emotions come and go; they change too

frequently with circumstances. A marriage must be founded and built

on something more solid and longer-lasting.

A few wise people start their marriage based on spiritual reasons.

First and foremost they want to please God. They want the favor and

blessings of God in their life and the life of their family (Prov.

18:22). These people also have going to heaven as a driving factor

for choosing a mate. The husband and wife will have greater

influence on each other for good or ill (1 Pet. 3:1-7). If the

other person is not interested in eternal life, but only the

hear-and-now, then the godly spouse will have an up-hill battle.

Further, a judicious person will consider future children in the

marriage. They will think about their souls before they are ever

brought into the world. The determination will be to have a godly

home with the children being taught by both parents about God and

His will. Solomon said that "Unless the Lord builds the house, they

labor in vain who build it" (Psa. 127:1-5).

Finally, the couple will not only think about their own home, but

those around them. In other words, another spiritual reason for

marriage is to be a godly influence on the world; a light in

darkness (Matt. 5:13-16). There are too many homes where Satan

rules. These homes have a deteriorating effect on society and

churches. The home in submission to God can help counteract this.

Such a home will be blessed by God.

There are many reasons to marry, but only a few good ones. Others

can and often do lead to disaster. We hasten to say, though, that

with God's help even a home with problems can be improved. It takes

commitment, determination, patience, and a lot of prayer. Whether

it is you or someone you know that is contemplating marriage, help

him or her by encouraging them to be guided by godly principles.

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All the best,

Steven